DO YOU REALLY LOVE YOURSELF?
There are so many unsuccessful and unhappy relationships nowadays. More marriages end than sustain, and although multiple factors contribute to this, there are certain ways to increase the likelihood of ending up in a happy and sustainable relationship.
The first thing to ask yourself is whether you are happy within yourself at the moment, whether you feel like you know and understand yourself to the core and recognize your passions and desires, free from external influences. Have you managed to accept, overcome and release any past traumas that may be preventing your happiness. Learning to love yourself is the essential precursor to loving others unconditionally, irrespective of any ‘flaws’. Seeing flaws in people including yourself is only a subjective perception. No one is perfect as that is part of the human condition. Having imperfections is what makes us individual and unique. So master self-acceptance and practice gratitude. Appreciate what you have already got right now in this present moment. Let go of the past, don’t forecast the future. Try and perceive life in a positive way right now.
Once you come from this place you are far more likely to attract the right person for you, someone who’s imperfections make them perfect in your eyes, and are such that you are able to accept them for exactly who they are and not expect too much from them. In return you are more likely to see this reciprocated, until the point is reached where your understanding of one another is so deep, nothing can come between you.
Most importantly - don’t go looking for the perfect relationship, let it come to you. Be patient, work on yourself and the right person will come at the right time, and you will know it because you will feel it.
Blessings from Soul Discovery
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